One week ago I was able to take the morning off of my hospitality duties and go with a group of women from Mercy Ships to the Sisters of Charity orphanage here in Contonou. Before going we were told that there are babies and mostly children 3 years and younger. There are a couple of kids who are older, like 6 and 7, who cannot be adopted because they are HIV+. I am not sure why those children cannot be adopted as 40% of the children are adopted by families in France and Italy and the other 60% are adopted into Beninoise families. But the kids there have been abandoned by their moms, some were found in the marketplace after being taken there with their mom and then being told to wait as their mom would go shopping and she would never return. One child was found tied to a tree with a sign around his neck saying: "HIV+". Upon hearing their stories I was excited to be able to go and spend a morning with the kids.
When we arrived the children were all in a courtyard area sitting on a mat waiting to receive a morning snack. Naturally some of the women from our group sat around the outskirts of the mat and within seconds had a child, if not 2 or 3 in their lap. I lingered in the back standing waiting for the snack time to be over, but after a few minutes I took a seat as well and before long a little boy made his way over to me. I couldn't help but notice an interesting smell coming from the little guy, but didn't really think twice as he eased his way on my legs with his crackers in hand. Suddenly I felt something warm and wet on my lap, at first I wasn't sure how to respond, after the initial shock of the situation wore off I lifted the boy from under his arms to reveal a very wet bum and a very wet lap. It was then that I realized there are too many orphans to address the difficulties of potty training on a 1-1 basis, so when you gotta go, you go. And diapers are out of the question because of the expense and the difficulty of washing that many cloth diapers. I tried setting the little boy on the ground next to me, but he was insistent on sitting on my lap. By the time I had accepted the fact that I was covered in urine I had 3 large wet spots all across my skirt from my attempts at sitting next to the boy instead of him in my lap... but in the end he won and I realized that skirts can be washed and this boy needed some loving.
After snack we (meaning the African ladies with us) sang songs and danced while walking in a circle with the children. At this time the sick children and some of the babies were brought out as well. I was able to hold a couple of babies, one that had a skin condition and I think some kind of infection, the other was VERY malnourished... but man oh man did those babies just love being held. The women from Mercy Ships also brought a parachute and everyone gathered around the parachute or ran underneath as it was lifted up and down. The kids LOVED the parachute! Then we helped the Sisters feed the children lunch before heading back to the ship.
I am so thankful for my experience at the orphanage and am so amazed at the Sisters who serve at the orphanage and have dedicated their lives to those who have no one to love them. The head Sister who runs the facility is from the South Pacific and from my brief encounter with her I was so blessed through her positive attitude and willingness and desire to serve the little children. She is most definitely a light in Contonou, Benin.
Little Benin Factoid: The country's national religion is Voodoo mixed with animism, but because of Christian missionaries that came Christianity is found in the cities, even in some of the countryside. But the Beninoise do not put their faith alone in Jesus for salvation. It is quite common to find a national who is a Catholic in the morning and practices Voodoo at night. Or they will go to the church to seek prayer for whatever problems they may have, but will wear their enchanted Voodoo necklaces to keep evil spirits away. Voodoo is so engrained in their culture and everything about their lives and they live in such fear of evil spirits it is common for the people to practice a variety of religions. At the football/soccer game I went to on Sunday there was a witch doctor walking up and down the front aisle, complete with his yellow, green and red paint along with his normal ritual clothing in support of Benin, yelling at the field. Please pray for the people of Benin to have their eyes open to the truth and for God to work through us to show the people here that He is Lord over all and has conquered death and they can live in confidence and not fear.